Being the bigger person, Does not always feel good, Understand it is important to think before acting impulsively. Impulsive actions create deep wounds and regrets that can last a lifetime Being good to people that mistreat you is a sign of good moral character and great strength  Enemies sanctify us and refine us through the test, and fiery trials that test, and stretch our faith, Empowering us to stop looking  to people for answers, Instead we will look  deeper within ourselves. In every one of us is a higher expression of we are. Showing kindness to our enemies is a form of godliness, That can transform, and change the situation in the process saving souls, and changing lives.