Many of us have tasted the bitterness of rejection, warping our internal perception perpetrators, do not see the negative implications of their actions, productive effective individuals shoulder the responsibility of others. solid character intimidates insecure people that have no self-worth, self-esteem of self. Often we are judged by a different set of principles governed by biased opinions and perceptions. Meticulously examined under intense scrutiny, to a higher degree of excellence, expected to go above and beyond our ability to handle more stress, more pressure causes, more people to rely on us  more, this double standard causes resentment, and frustration over time, eroding love embittering the spirit, encouraging you to forsake your responsibility and commitment to others. Corrupting your principles, and compromising your values.These conditions shape the attitudes and the decisions of others. Being a team leader, a role model shines a bright light that encourages others to operate in a spirit of unity, this increases productivity, that will aid in growth and development of individuals that have the power to create change and make a powerful impact in the world. These people are strong, and fearless, and possess a tenacity to never give up despite personal hardships, and discouragement. These type of conditions serve as a training ground, to help to perfect, shape and mold our character. Our character is the most valuable thing that we can possess, Our character will determine the quality of our relationships Our relationships are the very fabric of our lives our personal actions influence the lives of others, a positive word of encouragement can invigorate the spirit, by reaching down into the depths of the soul empowering it to believe even when all odds are counted against you, this positive faith can influence your circumstances giving you hope, and internal strength to move forward, in spite of your problems, and personal circumstances  conditons in the work place shape, and mold attitudes often trickiling down in to your personal relationships  affecting your ability to embrace intimacy, Often we are embarassed to show, different parts of our personality, due to the treatment we experience at the hands of our employers, and superiors. This directly influences our perception of the reality of our situation. When we are fair to others treat them with kindness and genuine concern we are able to gain their trust eventually earning their respect through your demonstration, of teamwork, disciple, and diligence influences the lives of others. an environment that promotes unity, and the spirit of cooperation encourage others to walk in integrity giving their best in their service to others, understand that favoritism undermines the quality of our integrity in the way we treat others. The way we treat others is the way we see ourselves, mistreating others is a manifestation of self-loathing that expresses itself in our inconsiderate actions and unkind words that may cause others to sin, may damage and bruise their perception of self, through hurtful words, and abusive speech, and gestures. causes us to build a wall surrounding our hearts to keep people at arm's length not allowing them to come close. This attitude robs you of your blessing, and prosperity, because a closed heart, cannot give, or receive love. In order to have deep meaningful relationships, we must realize that all relationships rest on three legs, Acceptance, Love, and support.